The mess in the house may seem like a small trifle, but in reality it is able to quietly corrode relations. Large nationwide survey conducted Storage CenterAmong the steam, it showed that chaos around things affects attraction and emotional closeness, sometimes leaving partners on the verge of hidden resentment. The mountains of dirty clothes, scattered dishes, old cables and random objects – all this becomes small, but constant irritants.

The survey participants said that a sense of irritation and a decrease in attraction to a partner often arises precisely because it is difficult for him to keep things in order. Sometimes this leads to a quiet war: one partner begins to clean up after another, secretly throw things away or make small “random” breakdowns to get rid of trash. Such strategies, of course, are not perfect – they sometimes end with quarrels, resentment and tension.

Which is most often annoying in the partner:

• Leave empty boxes, unnecessary cables or any trash “just in case” – 43%

• Allow their things to gradually litter the total space – 39%

• Refuse to remove, regardless of how many things have accumulated – 33%

• Turn one of the rooms into their personal landfill – 30%

• Start cleaning or organization, but do not finish – 28%

• Accumulation of non -ardent mail, parcels or documents – 25%

• Buy new things without freeing up for them – 23%

• Scatter cosmetics, care products or hair after shaving – 23%

• They buy more clothes when half of things in the closet with tags are 19%

• They acquire things that they do not need, and leave them unspoken – 19%

Slorfulness manifests itself differently. Someone scatters dirty clothes, someone is in no hurry to wash the dishes, someone leaves things “just in case”, which over time turns common rooms into a landfill. Particular irritation causes When a partner stores clothes that no longer fit, or things that seem completely unnecessary.

For young people, this is a particularly sensitive moment: representatives of the Z generation notes that the type of dirty apartment of a partner is able to completely discourage the desire to start a new relationship. Even just visiting the house at the beginning of the acquaintance can become a decisive factor.

The mess affects not only romance, but also social life. Many admitted that they did not want to receive guests when chaos reigns around, or hide from friends and relatives, fearing condemnation. Constant mess creates stress, reduces the level of comfort and can destroy trust between partners.

The reasons for the quarrel due to disorder and trash:

• One of the partners feels that he does all the cleaning himself – 37%

• Leave dishes, clothes or random things scattered – 35%

• Refuse to throw out unnecessary things – 32%

• The mess accumulates in common areas – 32%

• Too many things and there are not enough space for storage – 32%

• Store things “just in case” – 27%

• Different purity standards between partners – 27%

• Passive aggressive cleaning or comments-12%

Habits that a partner would like to get rid of:

• The lack of initiative to remove without reminders is 28%

• Storage of trash “just in case” – 14%

• Not wearable clothes that are not thrown away – 14%

• Buying things for which there is no place – 9%

• Unperepsible technology or dramatic in boxes – 7%

• The occupation of common space with your things is 5%

• Unused cabinets or storage systems – 5%

• Collectible objects that can be eliminated – 3%

• Old photos and albums that are not needed – 1%

The habits of a partner in clothes and order can be a real test of patience. Scattered clothes, mixing pure and dirty linen, irregular washing, dishes left around the house – all this turns accumulates as a “snowball”.

Interestingly, couples are looking for different ways to cope with this. Someone is trying to agree on the separation of duties, someone uses organizational decisions like cabinets and storage boxes. Others resort to social pressure-deprive a partner of attention, passively aggressively hint to motivate him to clean. Over time, such practices sometimes lead to the development of communication and compromise skills, as well as to develop sustainable rules of joint life.

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